Clear Signs That Your Relationship Is Coming To An End

2023 Author: Leslie Forster | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-26 07:36

Do you think your relationship is coming to an end but don't you dare admit it?

Admitting that love is ending is sometimes more difficult than separation itself. Accepting that this relationship in which you “invested” so much time and so much dedication ends is not an easy step.

Broken promises, unfinished projects, disappointments: when the end is near, looking back hurts; looking ahead is scary.

Of course, not all couples who have a hard time end up breaking up. Some survive, recover and at the time, it seems that nothing has happened. Others, on the other hand, simply end.

There are clear and some not so many signs that a relationship is coming to an end. These are the ones you can't ignore:

1- There is no more fun: Fun does not mean sex every day, drunkenness, dance nights and friends. Fun also means laughing at simple things, having a good time without leaving the house, going for a walk together, enjoying vacations, making time for lunch together in the middle of the work routine. When the relationship gets "too serious," there is no longer much to look forward to …

2- There is no intimacy: Although it is true that over time the frequency of sex decreases, the desire does not disappear and sexual life is very important to keep a couple together. The physical connection is necessary for the couple to keep their attraction energy always on the move. If you don't feel like having sex at all, not even when you touch or kiss you, or you don't care if you sleep with or without it, it's time to think about a change.

3- They want different things: At first, when we fall in love, we accept the other with their differences and preferences; but if over time we find nothing in common, there is not a place, a space, or an activity that attracts us both, there is not much to share. And a relationship is based on sharing. If you can not find anything that unites them, no matter how much love and respect there is between the two, there is not much future in the relationship.

4- There is someone else: Your partner cheated on you and does not even make the effort to show regret. Or you are crazy about your new coworker. When one of the members of a couple connects in an intense way with another person, it is very difficult to recover a relationship. Many times we "hook" with others because we are already with a "foot out" of the relationship and with this we are encouraged to take the last step.

5- His presence does not matter to you: If he is or does not matter to you, you are not angry or worried that he has not called or sent you a text, you prefer that he go to see a game with friends instead of passing by your house, If practically all your plans are to avoid it and you are happy when you go on a business trip, it is very clear that the relationship is over.

Sexual or emotional infidelity? What is more difficult to overcome?

6- It has become a friendship: It is wonderful to be friends with your partner. It is necessary to have a sincere, healthy and mutually supportive relationship; But when your partner becomes more a friend than your lover, and love and passion become a wonderful friendship, then it is time to think about ending the relationship and continue as good friends.