Why Not Having A Partner Can Be The Best Thing That Is Happening To You

2023 Author: Leslie Forster | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-26 07:36

One of your best friends is getting married and the other plans to get pregnant this year. And you are still single, but do you know that it may be one of the best things that is happening to you?

I remember in my single years seeing the disappointed and worried face of people when they asked me if I had a boyfriend or husband and I said no. I never understood why they worried. Singleness, being single and not “looking” for a boyfriend, allowed me to do wonderful things that I probably would not have done if I had been with a partner.

Singleness does not have to bother anyone. On the contrary, I assure you that there are many women in couples who envy (healthy and secret) your marital status. And here I tell you why being single can be the best thing that is happening to you right now:

Summer begins: Whether you like the heat or not, let's agree that summer is the season most prone to adventure, and not just love ones. It is time to go on a trip, discover new places, try new foods, visit friends and family. And what better than to do it at your time, pace and taste. Being single you can choose the destination that you want, travel as you like and spend it as you prefer.

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Don't waste time: If you had a partner or friends with partners, you will know that being in a relationship requires work and patience. Oh, and sacrifices. And yet many times the relationship fails and you feel like you've wasted time without learning anything or experiencing anything good. Singleness gives you the ability to manage your time and energy for things you really like and can help you transform your life in a positive way.

You get stronger: Sometimes it is difficult to go to the gym or go for a run if your partner is sitting on the sofa and invites you for a beer. Or if you have an argument with your boyfriend, you can't wait to go to the Pilates class. Singleness is the perfect stage to take care of yourself and get strong, not only physically, but also emotionally.

You are less anxious: Many women become anxious and stressed because their partners do not answer text messages or because they do not answer their calls. Not to mention the sleepless nights because the bride and groom do not come home. How lazy! Better not to have to worry about communication problems that even today, with so much technology, still ruin the day for many.

You still have friends: The arrival of children, or the marriage itself, changes a woman's relationship with her friends. Unfortunately, the frequency of visits is increasingly distant and those friends who were from every day now see each other every six months. If you are single, surely you will not lack invitations to go out, walk, go to dinner, to the movies or wherever you want. And your friends will always be happy to see you.

You challenge yourself: Who needs a boyfriend to paint the house? When you are single you realize how many things you are capable of doing without the help of a man or partner. Don't tell me that feeling of "accomplishment" doesn't make you feel good. Is fantastic.

You can do whatever you want: Is the skirt too short? Never mind. Do you want to change your hair color? Ahead. Singleness is the perfect stage to experiment, test, change, come and go. To live fully, without waiting for a man to come for you, approve your look or "take you to the moon".

I assure you that the more you enjoy being single, the more attractive they will see you and the better you will feel about yourself.