Differences Between Making Love And Having Sex

2023 Author: Leslie Forster | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-26 07:36

Psychologist Elliot Cohen claims that making love involves having sex, but having sex does not necessarily mean that you feel love for the other person, or vice versa

But what other differences exist between the two?

1. Deep emotions: This specialist indicates that sex is a desire for contact, where you touch, caress and stimulate to offer pleasure to the other person. In other words, these actions are performed to reach orgasm or ejaculation. During this type of sexual intercourse, the couple does not seek to touch each other's deep emotions. When love is made, yes.

2. Spirit vs. Physical: When you make love, you apply all your spirit to show your boy how much you love him. Not having sex, it is more physical.

“If both complement each other, a couple is formed; but sometimes it is confused because one of the two wants to share everything, explains Susana Saenz, a psychologist.

3. Expressions: Have you noticed how you express yourself towards that person you love so much? Have you compared her to a boy who was a "passenger" in your life? The way you manifest is different from when you have sex. If you love him, thoughts and perceptions unite your body and mind with his… Sex only seeks for both of you to get aroused, to penetrate and if I saw you on the street, I don't remember!

4. Satisfaction: Seeking pleasure and pleasing. That is the goal when you have sex with a boy you know little. It is self-gratifying for fulfilling a selfish desire, in this case the other or you do not care if he climaxed, he is happy … When you make love, all that plays. The purpose is to satisfy yourself and your boy!

5. Division vs. complicity: You have sex with any boy and hours later it will only be in the past. When the relationship has matured, your encounters with him will involve involving the soul, dreams, goals, complacency. "You give up separating yourself from him," says Cohen.

6. Days, months, years: You meet that boy that you like so much, but who have relationships occasionally. This is called having sex, when you are only looking for attraction and pleasure. Making love involves sharing emotions, sadness, goals … spending as much time as possible together. Here the act is more sensual than sexual. Love sprouts from your pores and from his!

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7. Time in bed: Has it happened to you that after having sex, that boy picks up his belongings and closes the door? When you make love, this does not happen. Even if your boy falls asleep (as is the custom of men) he will stay there by your side for a few or many hours. His wish is to be close to you and not let you go.

We do not say that one is better than the other. You have the necessary knowledge to decide how you lead your life. You can go the way of love where the couple shares dreams, goals and express love. But, if you do not want commitments, it is also a decision that anyone should respect because it is your life. The decision is yours alone!

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