How To Face A Relationship Where The Woman Is Older Than The Man

How To Face A Relationship Where The Woman Is Older Than The Man
How To Face A Relationship Where The Woman Is Older Than The Man

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I still remember the world commotion that arose when the recently elected president of France, Emmanuel Macron, introduced his wife, Briggite Trogneux, who is 24 years old and is already a grandmother. Everyone was scandalized and what I thought was: good for you, girl, that's how stereotypes are broken!

Consider that if it had been the other way around, that is, that the man was 24 years older than his wife, he would not have been in the press and no one would have made any comment. Or has someone pointed out that this is the same age difference between Donald and Melania Trump? It is an indicator of machismo, prejudice and hypocrisy that unfortunately still affects us as a society.

So if you are one of those women who has decided to live her love with a younger man through thick and thin, I want to offer you some tips that can help you maintain that relationship that, as we have already seen, can be full of obstacles and challenges.

You know that they will most likely criticize you, so be prepared: surely family, friends, co-workers will have an opinion about your relationship, and it may not be favorable. They will tell you all the reasons why your relationship can fail! So listen to them, smile at them, don't wear yourself out in arguments and don't allow them to suggest you. Listen to your heart.

Your children deserve special attention, if you have them: their opinion is more important, so sit down to talk to them and explain that it is a relationship like any other that is full of commitment, trust and love. Listen to them carefully and lovingly resolve their concerns.

Do not base the relationship only on the sexual: women reach our maximum sexual potential around 30-40, and men at 18. Therefore, such a relationship may be based purely on the sexual. If so, the probability that it will hold over time is lower. It is important that they get along sexually, but also that they consolidate their union, share a common project, have similar values ​​and principles, and compatible personalities.

He talks about being a parent: if he doesn't have children yet, and you are no longer capable of being a mother, it could be a problem in the future. It is an issue that must be raised and resolved from the beginning and if it is definitely something that he needs, they can see what other options are viable, such as in vitro fertilization, adoption, etc.

And most importantly, don't let prejudice determine your love life and live and enjoy your love. If you want more advice about relationships, be sure to visit my social networks (@lauraposadalifecoach).

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