7 Tips To Be Successful In Sex, According To Dr. Nancy Alvarez

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The key to being successful in sex, living a full sexual relationship as a couple and really enjoying the sexual act is communication, explains the renowned psychologist and sexologist Dr. Nancy Álvarez. “If there is no sincere communication, it is impossible for them to have a good sexual relationship. Sex is a space to transmit emotions and feelings”, she establishes.

Dr. Nancy, with the frank style that characterizes her, points out to Siempre Mujer what factors must be taken into account to achieve a successful couple relationship. From forgiving an infidelity or not to the most common mistakes that women make in sex.

1. What is the difference between male and female infidelity? “Women are unfaithful because they fall in love and create a bond with someone. The woman does it either with a coworker or with a person with whom she has contact to whom she tells what she feels. [Meanwhile,] men are unfaithful to anyone … Women need emotional contact in order to reach sex. I mean, she likes it, she feels good. It may be that one day with four more drinks you can have a [sexual] relationship with someone … A female infidelity is more important because women are the ones who, if there were to be a pregnancy, carry the child. And if you do it in a fortuitous relationship, it can be badly stopped … The man will have to send you money and, perhaps, he will not be very responsible. Thank God laws have been created so that at least he pays the child. A child needs the presence of a parent. Mom is not mom and dad. [Women] cannot play dad,”she warns. two. Can an unfaithful person change? How?"There are many reasons to be unfaithful. There are those who are compulsively unfaithful. The "donjuanes" or "adventurers" have a problem, a symptom of something. Infidelity means that there is a symptom that something is wrong with the partner. People who are addicted to sex are because they have emotional problems. If a man is constantly unfaithful and does not behave or seek professional help, get out of there! That doesn't go anywhere, "he says. 3. What advice do you give to the woman who forgives an infidelity?"Let him see why the man was unfaithful. If it is not frequent and repetitive behavior, you should analyze how she contributed to that if he was always there for you. When two are well, there is no room for a third. But, in all relationships there are holes. That is why you have to be attentive and seeing what is happening. A woman who does not have an orgasm has to seek help. A possessive woman, the man gets fed up and ends up doing what he wasn't doing, but being accused of doing. If a conflict persists, something must be done to resolve it.” If you are addicted to sex."People who have suffered great trauma are afraid of being close and far away. Fear of being close, because they are afraid of being abandoned. Fear of being away, because they feel abandoned. These people are not trained to have a relationship until they manage to overcome their fears. Get out of there, unless you commit to seeking help,”says Dr. Nancy. Sexless relationship. The premise of a marriage or coexistence without sex the doctor does not approve. “We love each other, but we don't go to bed. Well you have a friend or because you have children and they stay together for interest! Friendship is different from marriage. You go to bed with your husband [have sex]. If sex is wrong, it is an emergency, "she says. 4. What are the most common mistakes that women make in sex?1. “No man can force a woman [to do something she doesn't want to], but no man can live with a woman who doesn't like oral sex. Try to please the couple! 2. Fake orgasm. "That is outrageous! The man realizes, because what handles the relationship is the unconscious, that we have no control. 3. Communication. "If there is no honest communication, it is impossible for them to have a good relationship." 4. Trust. “Sex and good, non-verbal communication. An intelligent man knows when a woman lies in bed. Without good communication, there is no good sexuality. No one surrenders if there is mistrust. If you indulge in a sexual act, you risk that someone could hurt you, "he warns. 5. What makes a Latin woman a good lover? “Sex is a space to communicate emotions and feelings. The Latin woman expresses herself more. It is a volcano of emotions going up and down the whole day! We almost always talk and express what we are feeling. Sex is letting go, "she says. 6. Tips to fully enjoy the sexual act “Do not pay attention to the body, cellulite or belly. Desire - although it influences - is not the most important thing. Desire has to do with the unconscious, with what we have lived. If he doesn't think, why did Prince Charles leave Diana for Camila?… Diana was beautiful, but Camila was the woman he wanted. Desire has nothing to do with beauty or the body, "he points out. 7. What should a woman consider when making love?"Hygiene! A man may be excited, but if there is a bad smell, in the mouth, in the intimate parts, that will be enough for a penis that is erect to fall out or a woman on fire to go out, "the partner relations specialist frankly explains.. Tips from Dr. Nancy: bathe, perfume yourself and create a relaxed atmosphere. "The man relaxes with sex, but the woman is excited if she is relaxed."