6 Keys To Know That Your Boy Is Lying To You On WhatsApp

2023 Author: Leslie Forster | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-26 07:36

How do you know if that boy you are barely dating, your boyfriend or husband is a legitimate "Pinocchio"? When you have it face to face, it is easy to know that your boy lies because he avoids looking you in the eyes, moistens his lips more than normal and has difficulty swallowing, he cannot keep his hands still, he raises his tone of voice and begins to sweat. However, realizing if you lie to yourself on WhatsApp is more complex. That's where you have to take advantage of your sixth sense because there are clues that give away a liar. Find out what they are right now so you don't get teased!

1. It takes longer to answer: Sure, you need to think about what you will write so that you do not catch it in the lie; for example, if you are starting to date a guy -very handsome, by the way- and you ask him if he will be free for the weekend, he already saw your message, you see it online and he tries to answer, but the sentence does not end, he begins to analyze your attitude. Could it be that he has a girlfriend? And we are not saying it, says research from Brigham Young University in the United States, assuring that if you lie, you usually edit more as you write: delete and start again. Of course, give it the benefit of the doubt and that it does not become paranoia every time you notice this attitude in front of your screen.

2. Use 7 or more words: How so? The liar uses an average of 7 words to excuse himself, say scientists at Cornell University in New York, after analyzing the conversations of 1,703 people for a week. Women prefer to lie with 8.

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3. Use of pronouns: Words like "I" or "my" NEVER appear in their messages, in this way they are disassociated with lies. You will notice that what he says is false because he uses more pronouns in the second person (you, you, you and with you) or in the plural (you and you).

4. Omit your questions: It could be that you let it go when you are barely getting to know him or they are still not even friends with the right -he happened-, not when you are already his girlfriend or something else. Lying is uncomfortable, and if an answer to what you ask involves having to pretend, it's quite unpleasant. His way of "solving it" is to answer briefly, leave you "in plain sight" or even change the subject.

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5. Use exculpatory expressions: In your life you will meet all kinds of men. There are those who do not have any moral conflict to deceive anyone and others who do feel bad about doing so. If your partner belongs to this last club, it will be easier for you to identify when he falls for the lie because before releasing it he uses exculpatory expressions such as "to be honest", "there is nothing to worry about" and "I hate to tell you this, but …”, And they are a preview that what he will say next is not comfortable at all.

6. Write evasive phrases: Let's get to the point, the man who usually has a habit of lying to you communicates more with words like "probably", "maybe", "is possible" and "sure". Does yours do it?